Perspectives, insights, and personal experiences.

Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

The Leadership Journey Through an AI-Transformed World

Whether we like it or not, the ground beneath leadership is shifting. Artificial intelligence is no longer a future consideration — it’s an active force shaping how decisions are made, how work gets done, and how people relate to one another inside organizations. But while the tools and technologies are advancing fast, the human side of leadership is facing a slower, more complex transformation.

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Founders & Business Leaders Thomas Stelter Founders & Business Leaders Thomas Stelter

Control is Not the Same as Competence

Early on, being in control is often the reason a business survives. You have the vision, the standards, the urgency. But what works at $1m doesn’t work at $10m. And it certainly doesn’t work at $100m. If everything routes through you, the company can only move at the speed of your personal capacity. That’s the ceiling. And the higher you go, the heavier that ceiling becomes.

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Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

Emotions in Motion

There’s a moment I see often in coaching sessions. The one where someone tries — heroically — to keep the lid on. They’ll reach for logic. Keep things “professional.” Maybe laugh it off. But underneath… it’s humming. Tight throat. Swelling chest. The quiet storm of feeling. And then it cracks open. A pause, a smile, a tear, a yell. A truth. Not dramatic. Not performative. Just… real. This is the moment where meaningful leadership work begins.

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Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

Grief Is Part of Growth

We love the idea of moving forward: New chapter. Fresh start. Next level. Especially in leadership or personal growth, we’re trained to keep our eyes ahead — focused on goals, solutions, outcomes. But here’s the part we often skip: you can’t really move ahead until you’ve grieved what you’re leaving behind.

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Understanding the Board: a fresh take on power, presence, and purpose

Too often, we assume we know what a Board member is supposed to do. We transpose our experience as operators, managers, or founders onto a role that, in truth, requires a very different kind of presence. A kind of presence that listens more than it speaks. One that governs more than it manages. One that watches the system from a higher perch, rather than diving in to fix.

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Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

Professional Coaching: Is it useful for you right now?

Professional coaching is not a one-size-fits-all journey. From performance-focused models to developmental and even philosophical approaches, coaching can feel like navigating a constantly evolving landscape. In today’s fast-moving, complex world, coaching has become both a tool and a mirror — helping you expand your skills and explore your deeper values, aspirations, and ways of thinking.

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Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

Rethinking the Leadership Pipeline in the Age of AI-Redefined Roles

Across the agency and consultancy leaders I’ve partnered with this year, a consistent, shared concern has emerged… louder and more urgent than ever. And while AI dominates many of our strategic conversations, it’s not the usual fear around which model to choose or which platform to adopt that’s keeping leaders up at night.

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Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter Leaders of Self & Teams Thomas Stelter

AI & the Illusion of Speed

Conversations with coaching clients increasingly include a mention about AI and its role in their profession — as an initiative, a challenge, or a deeper personal concern. No question, we’re moving at unprecedented speed. But amid all this acceleration, a deeper question emerges — one that can’t be answered with a plugin, prompt, or productivity hack.

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